I was reading a blog in my blog list today and the blogger directed her readers to a post at The Heart of Life is Good. It's a heartfelt post on pain and loss and how it is "what makes life rich". I love this post because it not only speaks to me as a person who has been TTC for 7 years and have endured one BFN after another and has gone through two miscarriages, but it also speaks to anyone who has suffered/going through loss and pain in general.
To quote the blogger:
"Let it hurt. Let the experience of this disappointment sink into you. If it overwhelms you, it will overwhelm you. You don't have to be brave today. Explore this grief and get to know this pain. Embrace it. But then, survive it."
Read it. Think about it.